Why I will support gay marriage!

Yes I will say that I'm a Mormon and I am proud of it. But that doesn't mean I will shun my gay friends just because of that. I have several gay friends that disagree on what I believe and I them, but we are all Christian.

I don't care whether or not they get married because that is their choice. Not mine. I love my friends and they deserve their own voice. Maybe if we give them one, it will finally matter to them, and we will say that they matter. I am not going against my religion, I am basing my own opinion on this. I think that it should not matter whether we have gay pride or we have straight pride. Do I love my husband? Yes I do. Do others love their husbands? Yes they do. Do my friends love their partner's? With all their hearts. But it shouldn't matter who we are attracted to, whether it be man or woman, we should feel that our love actually matters. That is what this country was based on, equality.

I believe that love should win! No matter what. I know that I married the right person, but maybe the right person for me, is the wrong person for someone else. Why should I be ignorant about gay marriage when it is happening whether I like it or not? I am supportive of it, but a lot of people I know won't support it. Sometimes I think that maybe people are just raised ignorant because their parents think that is the best thing for them. I will raise my kids to be intelligent and to ask questions of everything. No matter what it is. If they want to know why one family has one mom and a dad, and another two dad's and another two mom's then I will answer truthfully and say that is what they chose.

Summer is fast approaching

Yes, I know the weather speaks, "It's summer." But the official day of summer is less then 20 days away! I can't wait! That means we have less than 3 months before we can be sealed for time and all eternity! This last 9 months have given me something that I know I will never want to give back! Marriage took, and still takes, everything out of me. And I am glad it will never give it back. Because though I would love to sleep an extra hour and keep the dishes undone, I now will get up that extra hour early and do those dishes!

So the question I know I have in mind, and probably everyone does, is what will I do for summer. Will I go to my in-laws and bbq a lot, or will I stay at home. Will I go on date night with my husband and let our money bleed dry, or will we save up for that baby we want to have so badly, and sacrifice my time to cook healthy food and make sure that we save up for that eventuality. I believe we will go to my in-laws a lot and bbq and spend time with them. And I believe that I will sacrifice my time and effort into planning a meal and cooking it rather then spending hard earned money and going out to eat every week. We will have those month-aversaries to go out and enjoy ourselves and then our one year anniversary we will get to kneel across the altar and get sealed for time and all eternity.

That is going to be the outline of our summer and its going to be a very busy one! But that is the price we pay! I will be able to upload more things soon! So stay tuned.

And yes, you might have noticed I've changed the blog title AGAIN, well the one right before this, was a temporary one, and now this is our permanent one because we are so close to eternity! Love ya'll!